You know those women who feel and act as if the world is out to get them? Everything bad that could happen to them, happens to them. It’s just one thing after another. No day is a simple day to them. Do they realize how unattractive that is?
Sometimes men are tricked, or blinded by the physical attractiveness of some of this group. Attractive women can make us oblivious to that unattractive part of them. But I think this only works for a limited time–eventually the annoying personality trait trickles through into our consciousness and we take corrective action.
I’m sure it’s true of men, as well. In general, I guess people would prefer to surround themselves with nice, happy people–not with people who complain, and drag themselves forward. It is for this reason that I sometimes smile in order to give myself a friendlier appearance.
It’s definitely true of men as well, but I think women would find it harder to believe that it is as significant a factor for men as it is, than vice-versa, given the pervasive stereotype of the superficial male.
Indeed, however hot a woman is superficially, certain things will immediately and irrevocably kill a man’s interest. A negative attitude or a toxic personality is one such thing. For a great many men, smoking is another such NMI.
I’m sure there are men who don’t care, but they’re never going to be happy anyway, until they grow the hell up.
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